Rabu, 20 Agustus 2014

hijab: don't say you ready if you are not

In a mid year of 2013 before ramadhan came I started to interest about hijab. Moreover recently hijab has many styles to choose and especially in my country it became a trend. I see women with hijab becomes more modest and gorgeous. .like they have secret to reveal....and make men respect to them. Unfortunately many women don't know the true meaning of hijab and they just wear it because they have to but not because they want to. Anyway about the definition itself hijab is a veil that covers the head and chest, which is particularly worn by a Muslim woman beyond the age of puberty in the presence of adult male outside of their immediate family. It can further refer to any head, face, or body covering worn by Muslim women that conforms to a certain standard of modesty. Hijab can also be used to refer to the seclusion of women from men in the public spheres, or it may embody a metaphysical dimension. The word of Al-hijab refers to the veil which separates man or the world from God (www.wikipedia.com).

*me and my family on Ramadhan*
So...back to the main topic that we talk about in the beginning,most of women have the same question like what I have now....do I ready to wear hijab? If it's the matter of obligation then im totally ready but now it leads to another question which is how far you get ready  for hijab? To myself I have a note that hijab means we must not just dress modestly but behave modestly. So if you just think that It's just an obligation but your heart is not ready then you will do it as you like without considering how you must behave when you wear it. Basically we must follow the islam syar'i in the way of wearing it so we don't get it wrong. How about me now?did I have behave modestly....well I never smoking,never drinking alcohol,and never go clubbing...so did I behave enough? I better say no.. I want to advance my religious side....I want to pray more....and I want to learn more about islam...the religion that I believe since I was born. Im in progress to advance how I connected with God and inshaallah every good start will lead to good end. Can't wait to officially wear hijab soon and I will let you know on my blog post (note:my mom ask me to wear it soon....:p).

Senin, 18 Februari 2013

Are you really ready enough?

When will you get married? that question always remaining until now and i don't have any interest to answer it nor even thinking about it. In my late twenties where my friends are busy to prepare their wedding I stand still in my 9 to 5 (or more) working time and not aiming to get worry. Do I don't have any passion to get in a long term commitment a.k.a marriage?Of course I have but not now....not to soon enough. Marriage is not just about love and commitment but it is also an understanding and an agreement. It's all about time, you don't have to follow any other to decide your time to say yes to marriage. It's your right to choose when you want to get married and with who you will get married. Me myself don't have any courage to say 'I do' for now (till I wrote this post and since Im not engaged in any relationship). For me I have to make myself sure enough that he's the one, not just  for temporary future husband but till the death do us apart. I keep questioning myself is he faithful enough for me not for now but after marriage life. Marriage life is different from long term relationship. You have to (want it or not) accept your husband personality whether is contrary from yours. If you have any idea like 'divorce' as easy as you named it then don't get married. Married is not a commitment between you and your husband or wife but it's also a commitment between you and your God. When you say 'I do' it's like when you say 'Amen' to your pray. You have promises to fulfill unless you die.

Kamis, 12 Mei 2011

Yono "The Glue Boy"

Who is Yono?Sebegitu pentingkah orang ini??dia diharapkan banyak marketing-marketing cantik untuk tetap ditempatnya dan orang paling dicari saat banyak customer datang....seganteng itukah yono???mari kita bahas anatomi tubuh Yono......Yono memiliki kaki yang jenjang....hampir sama kayak galah buat ambil mangga.....punya tubuh yang ramping...seramping icon susu merk "weight gain" dan punya poni rambut yang sangat ngetrend di jaman personil backstreet boys masih bujangan semua dan yang lebih penting tuh poni bisa berfungsi sebagai gorden untuk keningnya.....yono ini memegang peran penting sebagai juru kunci kantor ditempat saya kerja....gimana nggak...ruangannya aja tersendiri dengan 2 buah AC,saya curiga dia bawa kasur sama kulkas dan bikin tuh ruangan jadi kosan dia soalnya dia betah banget nongkrong disitu. okay back to the reason why he's called the glue boy......si yono ini tiap masuk ke ruangan kantor saya mukanya pucet jalannya lemes kayak orang ngobat/ ngedrugs....atau karena kedinginan di ruang sekecil itu dengan dua AC berkekuatan super dingin. Suatu hari si Inah pinjem lem Ai Bon ke si Yono buat ngelem sepatu hak 20 cm nya yang udah mangap depannya dengan ngototnya si Yono nggak kasih tuh lem ke Inah. Suatu hari kita baru tahu kenapa si Yono nggak kasih tuh lem..ternyata diem-diem dia suka cium-cium tuh aroma lem....katanya tuh lem aromanya kayak parfum terkenal.....wah mabok lem tuh anak...pantesan keteknya bau lem Ai Bon juga.....jangan-jangan glue stick sering abis gara-gara dia pake buat deodorant.....

Rabu, 04 Mei 2011

Saya nggak enak badan gara2 cermin saya ilang...

Masih inget kan saya punya temen yang punya penyakit mirror addicted akut stadium 4??
Namanya Inah.....cewek sunda dari sebuah kota kecil di daerah pedalaman jawa barat...Si Inah ini temen sebangku saya dan temen semeja saya...loh..kenapa bisa begitu?? karena boss kami terlalu pelit untuk beli 1 meja untuk 1 orang..."nanti kantor terkesan penuh" gitu alasannya....ya penuh...penuh alasan boss saya........
Kembali ke Inah....si Inah ini entah kenapa kemana-mana bawa cermin...dia sampe punya cermin cadangan......satu ilang masih ada yang lain....mungkin dia pedagang cermin di kampungnya....suatu hari di pagi yang cerah Inah heboh sendiri........udah kayak keilangan duit 1 milyar dia ribet sendiri...mulai aduk2 tasnya......aduk2 laci meja....aduk2 lemari file sampe aduk2 kopi si boss......."nggak ada!!!" si inah teriak2 heboh sendiri......dengan santainya saya nanya

Saya : "cari apaan emang?"
Inah : "cermin...cermin gw nggak ada....."
Saya: "itu ada yg warna merah"
Inah : "yg item"
Saya : "ohhh"
Inah : "kok kepala saya pusing ya"
1 jam kemudian
Inah :" keringet dingin nih"
2 jam kemudian
Inah : "duh...mual"
Saya : "pulang gih"
Inah menghadap si boss
Inah: "boss saya mau pulang duluan"
Boss: "eeee kok begitu....kamu mau nggak gajinya dipotong duluan?"
Inah:"tapi saya nggak enak badan boss....."
Boss: "masuk angin kali"
Inah : " saya nggak enak badan bukan karena masuk angin boss.....ini lebih parah....cermin saya ilang satu" sambil mulai pucet mukanya
Boss: mukanya merah kayak udang rebus.....
Saya :"kasih pulang pak....1 jam lagi bisa masuk ICU ntar" kata saya dalam hati

Selasa, 03 Mei 2011

All about that horrible Job..........

Stress....stress dan stress.....

Saya bekerja 6 kali sehari dengan waktu kerja lebih dari 9 jam per hari....
dan dengan orang-orang yang unik disekeliling saya.....pernah saya berpikir untuk resign tapi sejauh ini belum ada pekerjaan lain yang bisa menampung saya. Tiap saya berangkat bekerja saya selalu merasa ironi....well I work in a big company in my country but it has small standard in salary....nggak seimbang sama sekali....sampai kita punya motto....."kalau belum tipes berarti belum sah jd karyawan sini"......saya punya executive manager yang suka meledak-meledak dengan logat bataknya......punya mantan manager divisi yang suka lupa dan arogan......punya manager divisi yang nggak tau apa-apa....punya supervisor yang suka menghilang dan punya amnesia akut.....dan punya temen yang punya penyakit mirror addicted.....well that's my life.....

Selasa, 25 Januari 2011

Music Genres Part I : Blues....Blues....Blues....yes I got the Blues...



Music on my room....music on the bus....music on the office....music everywhere.....music is the universal language to many people....it's amazing how people from around the world can unite in one kind of music. I myself love music.....any kind of music....and it's fun to learn about it....since I want to learn about the various of music genres I tried to find the article about it....and I would like to share it with all the readers.


Blues

The birth of the blues is shrouded in mystery and uncertainty, the music thought to have developed gradually over the course of several decades at the end of the 19th century. Amateur historians and academics alike agree that the blues is an amalgam of various musical styles, from West African Griots and the work songs and field hollers sung by primarily African slaves to Appalachian folk music, ragtime, and early jug band music.

American songwriter and jazz/blues great W.C. Handy is said to have heard music closely resembling the blues as early as 1892, and Handy wrote several blues songs like "Memphis Blues" and "St. Louis Blues" that would become jazz, rather than blues standards. The blues experienced its "coming out" party in 1920 with what is widely considered to be the first true blues song recorded, Mamie Smith's "Crazy Blues."

Throughout the 1920s and '30s, the blues were defined as an art form through the efforts of traveling musicians like Charley Patton, Son House, Blind Lemon Jefferson, and others who were the sons of sharecroppers and the grandsons of slaves. Early blues artists were typically educated in a wide range of musical styles, capable of performing raucous blues music for juke joint audiences, but also being well-versed in traditional folk and popular music for when the occasion merited such performances.

(www.blues.about.com)

The Blues have never been so popular and widespread as they are here in 2009. There are currently more blues festivals worldwide, both electric and acoustic, than you can shake a stick at. Everybody it seems, can quote the above main title of this piece in connection with the Blues. Even if they know nothing or very little about the genre. It is the latter section of the community this brief survey is being aimed at.

The Blues evolved from slavery times at the tail- end of the 19th. C. in the southern states of the USA. The earliest candidates for its place of ‘birth’ are the Mississippi Delta (in the northwestern part of the state!) and the East Texas piney woods. It was sung and played BY working-class blacks FOR working-class blacks. The Blues, most importantly, is primarily a vocal music. More than just another genre, the Blues became a way of life for many of the singers – and indeed their audiences. The latter would be a live audience before the advent of recordings. Originating in the logging camps, cotton fields, railroad and levee camps; the Blues soon gravitated to urban centres in the South.

This process was speeded up considerably in 1920 when the first genuine blues (i.e. black) singer entered a recording studio. After a promising debut in January backed by a white orchestra, Mamie Smith was brought back by the Okeh record company in August. This time she was accompanied by a black band which included such jazz luminaries as Willie ‘The Lion’ Smith. They cut a blues number: Crazy Blues. A surprising and immediate success, financially for the record company and Ms. Smith, this opened the flood gates for other black singers. Initially these were all female singers who did not play on their records. These included Edith Wilson, Lucille Hegamin and Alberta Hunter. By 1923 some of the heaviest (aka the finest) of these made their disc debut. The ‘big four’ are Bessie Smith, Clara Smith (no relation), Ma Rainey and Ida Cox. Often backed by some of the top jazz musicians of the day; Louis Armstrong, King Oliver, James P. Johnson and Buster Bailey among them. Other singers of only slightly less talent also made records around this time: Rosa Henderson, Sippie Wallace and Viola McCoy, for example.

Therein lies the irony. This was an early urban form of blues in various grades of authenticity. Many singers included traditional/rural blues verses in their recordings. The rural singers themselves only came into their own when the record companies were seeing a decline in sales and started looking further afield- often literally! By the end of 1925 and the start of 1926 the rural/country/downhome blues entered centre stage.

Some of the giants were captured on disc from this period on to the early 1930s. Names like Blind Lemon Jefferson, Charley Patton, Blind Willie McTell, Son House, Bukka White and Barbecue Bob hit the black record-buying public; with titles such as Lemon’s Matchbox Blues in 1927. Nearly 30 years later rock-a-billy star Carl Perkins would re-record it as Matchbox for Sun Records in Memphis, Tennessee. A decade or so further on the Beatles would also cut a version. These earlier blues artists, and many more, usually played solo featuring vocals and a myriad of guitar sounds and styles. With few exceptions they did not read music and drew on a strictly oral tradition. There were also some pioneering harmonica (‘harp’) players who recorded solo: Jaybird Coleman, Noah Lewis, DeFord Bailey and Alfred Lewis. The first two played in jug bands such as the Birmingham Jug Band and Cannon’s Jug Stompers.

Another essential strand of the Blues. These groups were part of a strong black string band tradition in the South. Mississippi’s Big Joe Williams although a solo performer with a 9-string guitar would sometimes play with a small group (the Washboard Blues Singers). At his debut on record in 1935 he was accompanied by a one-string fiddle and a washboard: Dad Tracy and Chasey Collins respectively. Their first track was the first version of Baby Please Don’t Go on record. Many years later British blues and r ‘n b groups would perform this and sometimes record it. The Animals from northeastern England and even later still Van Morrison's band Them cut a very creditable performance – the fastest I’ve ever heard. Other bands to cut versions were AC/DC, Aerosmith and even Bob Dylan. A myriad of other examples of the Blues’ awesome influence on music today, including jazz, could be cited. But limitation of space rules, OK.

The Blues has always been a genre of music with a FEELING. Lacking this essential ingredient cannot be compensated for by technical prowess alone. The earlier singers would relate subjects and situations well-known to their original audiences and an unassailable rapport and feeling of solidarity was forged; one that had beginnings back in slavery days in the early 19th. C. and beyond. One verse I recall from memory was put down by Buddy Moss from Georgia in 1933:

Some people talk about money, but I haven’t got none. (x 2)
But I’m so glad that I ain’t the only one.

One of many universal themes in the Blues.

In the 1930s Blues was becoming more urbanized, yet again. In Chicago artists, who had migrated from the South, such as Big Bill Broonzy, Washboard Sam, Memphis Minnie, Tampa Red, and Sonny Boy Williamson (No.1.) were increasingly using more instrumentalisation. As well as piano, upright and imitation bass, 2nd. and 3rd. guitars, harmonicas, drums and some jazzhorns like trumpet and saxes featured on pre-war Chicago blues. Most of these of course had featured in earlier rural blues. The piano in particular by 1929/1930 was often the only accompaniment to such legends of boogie woogie/barrelhouse recordings by the like of Roosevelt Sykes, Little Brother Montgomery, Will Ezell, et al.

But the rural blues were still ‘speaking’. In 1936-37 Robert Johnson made a phenomenal set of 29 titles. The most famous being Crossroad Blues with urgent slide guitar. Eric Clapton and Cream would re-make (in virtually every sense of the word!) this in the UK some thirty years later.

Blues had been labeled ‘race music’ in the early 20th. C. but was re-named Rhythm and Blues (R n’ B) by the1940s. With the introduction of the electric guitar into the Blues in early 1938 and added saxes, rocking bands led by Roy Milton, Tiny Bradshaw, Amos Milburn, Louis Jordan, and Joe Liggins were just a few that carried the Blues onwards. Professor Longhair, Smiley Lewis and Fats Domino carried it on into the 1950s. Along with doowop groups inspired by early black quartets/quintettes featuring mostly gospel music. Many whites would sneak around the outside of places they were playing at (segregation was still in force) and heard sounds they really dug. Rock-a-Billy artists such as Charlie Feathers, Ray Smith, and Carl Perkins put their own stamp on the Blues mixed in with old-timey/country roots. Around 1952 a man called Bill Haley changed his band’s name and they became Bill Haley’s Comets. Soon Elvis Presley, Gene Vincent, ;Little Richard, et al. would follow.

(‘Mississippi’ Max Haymes and Alan White
31st. July, 2009)

Next...>>>>>>>Jazz



Jumat, 21 Januari 2011

Beaches.....Most Visit....

Since I really deeply need a vacation out of my exhausted days in the office I tried to find some places to relax....I choose beach because I love blue ocean, wave sound, soft sand and beautiful sunset...(I use beach picture as my desktop wallpaper: the unaccomplished wish to have a vacation =_=").

Considering my monthly budget I browse some beaches in my country (going local @_@) and It's as beautiful as any other beaches abroad...I tried to make a list and I want to shared it to everyone...so hope you have a great vacation to....here it is....

Gangga Island
Gangga Island is at the northern tip of Sulawesi island. In the inner of the Sangihe Islands. Not too far from Bunaken there is an island of Ganges which is far more beautiful than Bunaken. Fine white sand, clear water, and quiet. Gangga Island covering an area of 5 hectares is actually run by an Italian resort. Can be reached by car for 1 hour from the city of Manado and 30 minutes by speed boat from the village of Likupan. You can swim on the sea early in the day,evening and late at night for not too choppy. The view at sunset is spectacular. All of the reddish orange sky reflected in the sea water into gold.
(www.google.com)

Tanjung Bira

Tanjung Bira is located in South Sulawesi province, about 41 miles to the east of the city Bulukumba. Backpacker can reach it easily because it took a public transportation to go there that cost only 8 thousand rupiah from Bulukumba. If you want a comfortable journey, you can also use a taxi or car rental services which are found.

The beauty of this beach has been known for many foreign tourists as a white sand beach is very fine like flour, and lay up to tens of kilometers. A beautiful sunrise and sunset can also be seen from the beach. That many foreign tourists who come here each year, making local government infrastructure and facilities to undertake arrangement.

Tanjung Bira marine parks are also very beautiful . The water is also very clear so you can enjoy the beauty of the underwater panorama just by looking from the beach. Diving and snorkeling become the tourists' choice when visiting this place. If you want to join diving activities on Selayar island, there are ferry services that are ready to take you to enjoy the beauty of this beach. (www.google.com)


Raja Ampat

For those who want to see a very beautiful virgin beach, you can visit Raja Ampat beach which is located in the waters of the western part of Irian Jaya . Raja Ampat is still signed in Sorong district which occupied only about 21 thousand inhabitants. The islands around it are still very fresh. Even under the sea, there are many war wrecks during World War II that sank.

It is so beautiful that many international underwater photographers take pictures in this place
. Even National Geographic had wrote about this place in one particular episode as well as the world's major report, in 2007. World Bank to disburse even contributed funds to protect coral reefs and marine biota which are threatened with extinction. Nearly 75 percent of the world's coral species, can be found in the waters of Raja Ampat.

But unfortunately, to enjoy the attractions on this beach, you must spent a lot of money because they are relatively expensive. Cheapest lodging rates reached 75 euros, or about 1 million rupiah per night and the ferry rates to reach the beach was worth 3.2 million rupiah one way. If you are really interested in visiting this place, you can depart from your city airport to Domne Eduard Osok Airport, Sorong and ride to Raja Ampat island by speedboat.


Karimun Jawa


Karimun jawa
which is one of the sub-district of Jepara (Central Java province), located 45 miles from the island of Java. Consisting of 27 islands with 5
inhabited islands, including Karimun Besar island where most of the lodging is located. Because of its natural wealth, since 1986 the government established a National Park Sea Publications. Obligatory for island hopping to the islands around it, like in the Menjangan island where they are breeding turtles and sharks or snorkeling in the vicinity of Cemara Island. If you have a spare budget, you can stay on the resort of the island which is owned by a Sweden. There are white sand with blue water color gradation and beautiful underwater world in all of the islands.

Macan Island

Macan Island is an alternative tourist beach in the holiday weekend. This beach is visited by local and foreign tourists. Because in addition to enjoying the natural atmosphere of this beach the tourists can do snorkeling, playing in the white sand, swimming and fishing.

Macan Island in administratively, the island part of Jakarta residents minimal and far from pollution, so it is possible to still original and fresh air.

Electric facilities on the island is still using the solar energy which is then accommodated by many battery. At night, you can see the nature of the open sea while listen to some pounding waves that came over the land of sand and feel the atmosphere of a quiet and comfortable night...hmm nice reference since I live in Jakarta so it's not too far away :). (www.griyawisata.com)

well those are some references...next post I will write about vacation tips..c u soon and have a great vacation ;)