Senin, 18 Februari 2013

Are you really ready enough?

When will you get married? that question always remaining until now and i don't have any interest to answer it nor even thinking about it. In my late twenties where my friends are busy to prepare their wedding I stand still in my 9 to 5 (or more) working time and not aiming to get worry. Do I don't have any passion to get in a long term commitment a.k.a marriage?Of course I have but not now....not to soon enough. Marriage is not just about love and commitment but it is also an understanding and an agreement. It's all about time, you don't have to follow any other to decide your time to say yes to marriage. It's your right to choose when you want to get married and with who you will get married. Me myself don't have any courage to say 'I do' for now (till I wrote this post and since Im not engaged in any relationship). For me I have to make myself sure enough that he's the one, not just  for temporary future husband but till the death do us apart. I keep questioning myself is he faithful enough for me not for now but after marriage life. Marriage life is different from long term relationship. You have to (want it or not) accept your husband personality whether is contrary from yours. If you have any idea like 'divorce' as easy as you named it then don't get married. Married is not a commitment between you and your husband or wife but it's also a commitment between you and your God. When you say 'I do' it's like when you say 'Amen' to your pray. You have promises to fulfill unless you die.